Let’s be honest: most dating app bios sound like they were written by the same person.
As someone who's spent years analyzing dating trends and helping people optimize their profiles, I can tell you one thing for sure: originality is rare, and clichés are everywhere. If you want to stand out on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, or whatever app you're swiping on, you need to ditch the overused lines that make your profile forgettable. Why? Because clichés tell potential matches that you haven't put much thought into your profile, and that can instantly kill attraction. When your bio feels copied and pasted from the internet, it fails to spark curiosity or emotional connection.
Here are the top 15 most overused dating app phrases — and what to write instead if you want real matches (not just ghosters). I'll also break down why each of these clichés are problematic.
This screams low effort. You're basically saying, "Follow me, but I have nothing interesting to say." It also signals that you're more interested in building clout than genuine connection.
Instead, try: Ask me about the weirdest place I’ve ever travelled. It involves goats.
We get it — and that’s valid. But if your profile only focuses on your kids, it gives the impression that you're not ready to share anything else about yourself.
Instead: Share something about your lifestyle or hobbies, then mention the kids naturally.
Everyone loves laughter, but this phrase is overused and vague.
Instead: If you can quote The Office better than me, we’re probably soulmates.
This line often appears in all caps, which makes it sound defensive or bitter.
Better: Looking for something real and meaningful.
You're trying to say you're funny, but this has been done to death.
Try: I rank my pizzas by crust integrity. Yes, it’s a serious system.
Loving your pet is great, but this line lacks originality.
Better: I take my border collie on hiking adventures every weekend.
This sets a judgmental tone. Instead of inviting conversation, it alienates people.
Better: I value deep convos, honesty, and people who own their emotions.
It’s overused and vague.
Better: I love spontaneous nights out, but I’m open to more if the vibe is right.
The term feels pretentious when overused.
Try: Turn-ons: curiosity, critical thinking, and asking 'why' a lot.
Most people love to travel, so what makes you different?
Better: I did solo Japan, got lost in Tokyo, found my way via ramen shops.
Generic and empty.
Better: Startup founder by day, jazz drummer by night.
Comes off as passive-aggressive.
Better: Tall enough to reach the top shelf and humble enough to do it for you.
Vague and non-committal.
Try: Let’s go thrifting, crash a museum, then eat tacos at 2am.
Leading with this makes you sound angry or jaded.
Better: I’m here for real connections and real laughs.
"Nice" is vague. Show, don’t tell.
Try: Last week I helped a tourist find their way *and* gave them gelato recs.
Your dating profile is your digital first impression. In a sea of repetition, clichés are the equivalent of showing up to a date in sweatpants. You might be amazing, but no one will stick around to find out.
Taking 10 extra minutes to think through your bio can make the difference between a match and a missed opportunity.
Here’s the truth: people swipe fast. If you want them to pause, smile, and feel something — give them something real, funny, smart, or heartfelt. Let your personality come through. Avoid copy-paste lines. And most of all, speak like a human, not like a dating profile generator.
If your bio could be used by literally anyone, it won’t work for you. But if it sounds like you, that’s when the magic starts.